Sometimes I wonder why people would love to assume things including me? Then I figured out few facts.

1) They wanted to know something that they don't have a chance to get the exact answer, so they can only assume, ex: I wanted to know something so desperately, but the person who knows the answer seems not willing to giving this chance to me, so I have no choice but to assume.

2) They are afraid to know the exact answer, so they will assume the final answer to somehow confort them, ex: I don't want to get rejected by people on something, so I make an assumption, assuming that it will ends up in the way I think it would be, and normally it will always be a negative situation that I will assume, so why try? So I assume.

3) There are times where you wanted to try out your luck so you assume, ex: There are no more parking space, I'm going to park on an illegal space which I assume that it will not be that lucky for me to have a summon at this time, so I assume.

Normally I assume when face situation No.1 and No.3, I hardly assume when I'm in situation No.2(No.2 will only occur when in some "special" situation and "special" someone eg family, relationship and friendship). By this, now you might see I'm a very impatient person. See, I always believe in this, if I never try I'll never know.

There were once I came across a very funny situation. I stayed over in my BF's place as usual, we park our car at the car park area which there always have those inconsiderate driver who simply park their cars and block the way, and that is the only way to get out from the car park. So my BF tried driving his car out yet he couldn't by seeing the gap of the left over space. He called me and ask me whether could he use my car for a day. Of course I wouldn't mind, who is he? My Love one leh!So I pass him my key and get to know the situation, checked out the place and asked again if he sure that he couldn't drive his car out? He said yes, by looking at the space, shouldn't be any chances for him to drive his car out. Without asking much, I pass my key to him and got myself back to dream land.

When I was awake, it's already lunch time, and thinking of having lunch. I took his car key out and I still saw the car parking over the same spot, I took a paper and wrote a few words to the car owner asking him please be more considerate the next time when s/he park the car. So what now? Around the place where my BF staying, there's only one mamak stall which looks horrible, and nothing else than that, if I don't drive out, I'll need to me starve until my BF came back from work. Without thinking too much, I started the engine and shut the both side mirror, drove slowly out from the "isle"... Yes! I pass through it successfully. Then I realize actually There were actually still lot more space for the car to go through.

Moral of the Story: We as human assume, though we know assumption is awlays the mother of F*** up, but we still do. Yet, please also bare in mind that, never try never know. Always stand in the middle when you do or think everything. If I didn't try that moment, I think I'm gonna starve myself until my BF back from his work. I receive this sms before which I love it so much and didn't actually delete it. I couldn't remember it but is something like this: Life is short, you will never know what will happen next. So live your life, when chances are here, just grab it! It'll No one said it'll be easy, but if you never move, you will stay on the ground forever. So, face it, take it, without regreting it! Cheers all! :)