The Story about the BOX in Brain
I heard a story about the Box in brain from one of my friend. He told me, regardless girls or guys, there always have few boxes in their brain. It categorizes these wayfamily box, relationship box, work box, “empty box” (for guys).
I believe all girls will come across this when they are in a relationship. The boyfriend will always tell them, “You know, everyone need own space, I need that too! So please leave me alone.” Then girls will normally ask: “Are you unhappy baby? Have something that bothering you?” and normally how their boyfriend or guy friend will answer? They will answer like this: “Nothing! I just need space and time!”
The girls will left no choice but to leave their beloved alone for no specific reason, and with lots of question marks in head and dare not ask further, but one thing for sure, girls will always don’t know why they need this space, and ask themselves: “Isn’t it all couples would love to stick together 24/7 if there is a chance?”
All the girls out there, here let me present you what a guy need, and what is the BOX in their head. We will have this box in our head as well. But we use it differently; we will open our box and hide ourselves in this box when we are sad, down, or disappointed with something. This is somewhat consider our sad box. We just don’t want to face the world, everything that happened so that’s why we hide ourselves in it to search for solutions, let ourselves being sad for awhile. We search for an explanation in it, our box is not empty, we might figure out things from there, or even a solution, and normally the time hiding in the box will not be long as we will get what we want inside quite fast. We girls hide inside this box for a reason. But let me tell you, guys are just so different from us. Their box contain nothing inside, nothing means nothing. The worst is not more than, they like to hide inside this box as and when they like. Whether or not they are facing any problem or just simply wanted to do nothing in the box and just hide inside. This is what they call it “their space”. You might want to know why, and you being a girl are so curious why they wanted to hide themselves? Tell you what, don’t ask, because you will never know why. Why? Let me have a clearer explanation to you, it is as simple as just because the guys don’t even know why they need it! See?
So, come on girls, create this box, and use it to them as well! Learn to be alone, learn to have your own space, hide inside as and when you like. No point keeps sacrificing all your time to them when they don’t even know how to appreciate it, no? Yes, it might looks like revenge; maybe yes its revenge, but maybe we should put it in another way. When a guy need time and space, they will force the girls to give them, tolerate with them, but have they ever think of how a girl feels when they do these things to them? So, girls maybe we should learn how to be alone too to “sort out our things”…